I hate when people have an opinion on MY situation when it comes to MY adoption situation. Oh and most of the people who have opinions have GREAT relationships with their childs Aparents. GUESS WHAT? Your opinion is based on perfection in my eyes. You made a plan and both of you are sticking to it. I made a plan too and for some reason after 9 years of building relations and trust and love the plan shattered at my feet with NO warning and NO reason.
Do not pretend you understand or try and stand against MY situation when you don't know what I go through EVERY DAY! I love my sons parents for everything they have done and I would NEVER take back what I did. I will never bad mouth them for doing what they felt was right in fact I have said time and time again if they CAME TO ME and let me know they wanted to halt communication for a time I would have been upset but at least I would have known and I could have prepared myself for it.
Yes I am heart broken daily thinking about how much I would love to restore communication but again its MY situation. If you aren't living in my shoes you don't get a choice. So take a stand against something you know nothing about but be warned you are fighting a LOOSING battle.
